October 29, 2014 was a beautiful, sunny day. Shortly after
lunch, my husband, Tom donned his gear, including his helmet, and set out for
his daily bicycle ride. He rode fifteen to twenty-two miles every day. He was
dedicated.
I’m a writer, so I sat down at my computer to continue work
on the novel I was drafting. Tom had not been gone but a few minutes when my
cell phone rang. It was 1:13.
“Mrs. Waters?”
“Yes.”
The caller told me Tom had been in an accident on his bike. Someone had already called 9-1-1. Apparently Tom’s front tire dropped off the pavement. He
was thrown into a tree. I was out the door and headed to the site before
hanging up with the unidentified man on the other end of the line. I arrived on
the scene as the paramedics were beginning to assess his injuries.
“Can’t breathe,” Tom whispered. The paramedics offered to
help him to a sitting position to see if that would help. He nodded. But as
they raised him up, he passed out. The only visible injuries were the scrapes
on his left arm where he hit the tree. I watched as they lifted him onto the
gurney. I watched carefully. I made note of the uneven earth and the awkward
stance of the two paramedics on the opposite side of the gurney. I knew Tom
would ask me later about the lift.
You see, Tom was the lead author of the Revised NIOSH
Lifting Equation (RNLE). For over twenty-four years he had conducted research,
taught classes, and presented compelling information to people around the world
about lifting practices to enhance worker safety. He worked with caring people
in industry. People like those at Toyota and Corning. In addition, Tom’s
interest included extensive research into safe patient handling. I knew he
would be concerned about the paramedics. So I watched.
In a few minutes, Tom was being driven away. The hospital is
adjacent to our neighborhood so I handed Tom’s bicycle to a teenage boy to
deliver to my house, made a U-turn on the main road and arrived at the hospital
moments before the emergency squad.
The internal injuries were far greater than I expected. The
medical staff did everything possible, but at 3:13, they pronounced my husband
of forty-three years, dead.
This past year has seemed surreal. At times I cannot imagine
Tom is gone. Other times, the pain is so great I wonder how I can breathe.
A few months after Tom’s death, the Center for Disease Control Foundation (CDCF), with the support of Tom’s coworkers, announced the
formation of a memorial scholarship in Tom’s name. I know he would be honored.
Moreover, I know that with the educational support offered through this fund,
Tom’s legacy of concern for worker safety will continue. His name will live on,
forever connected to the field of ergonomics and safety engineering. This
memorial is funded through charitable donations.
Here is an excerpt from the CDC Foundation site:
“The
Thomas R. Waters Memorial Scholarship for Ergonomics Research exists to
increase the community of individuals trained in ergonomics with a focus on
occupational safety and health…In honor of his memory and legacy, this fund
will continue to support the community of individuals trained in human factors
or ergonomics with a focus on occupational safety and health.”
I ask
for you to consider this fund in your end-of-the-year giving. Any and all gifts
help. And…I have a commitment to match end of the year giving up to a total of $10,000.
For
more information or to give to the foundation, click on this link:
So sorry for your loss. What an amazing honor having the memorial scholarship for his legacy to live on! Blessings to you through this journey.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Billie Jauss. He was an amazing man. I appreciate your tender heart in this.
DeleteBecky, you are in my thoughts today. Much love and many hugs.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Danielle. I so appreciate the many kind words shared. I hope when people read this, they will give to the scholarship. It is one way he will be remembered.
DeletePrayers are with you today! What a wonderful way to honor your husband.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Barb. I am encouraged that Tom will be remembered through this scholarship fund. It has been a tough year.
DeleteI've thought of you often over the past year, Rebecca. Continued prayers for your family.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Carolyn. I appreciate your continued prayers.
DeletePrayers for you today.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Melissa. Prayers keep me going.
DeleteWhat a beautiful post. I'm honored to be your daughter and proud to have had such a giving, smart, and special Dad.
ReplyDeleteYou are so precious. Your dad and I have always been so honored that God entrusted you to us.
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