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Broken, Chipped, and Beautiful

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The beginning of summer.  I’ve longed for this time of year. As spring ended and summer was on the horizon, I spent a couple of weeks at the beach. The ocean is always a source of energy for me. Energy and renewal.  I love the way the ocean is ever changing, yet always constant.  The tides continually roll in and out with the soothing rhythm that lulls you to sleep at night and beckons you to chase the sun during the day. I used to think people were like the ocean…always moving, ever changing, learning to go with the flow… But this trip, I came to realize we are much more like the seashells we find along the shore. The waves of life sometimes knock us down or carry us places we never thought to go. Sometimes those waves serve to polish us and make us something beautiful or useful.  Other times we wind up broken or at least a bit chipped.    Broken, Chipped & Beautiful I used to always search the sand for the “perfect” sh...

The Journey of Coming Home

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“It was like coming home…” We’ve all heard the expression. We associate that “coming home” feeling with memories and familiarity. Sometimes it has to do with food or smells. For me it means people. Five years ago, just after  Breathing on Her Own  was released, Tom and I packed up our things in Florida and along with my mom we headed home to Ohio. The trip home was to include a jaunt to the Myrtle Beach area of South Carolina. We’ve spent many vacations there with family and friends. Two dear friends, Toni and Lowell live there year round, unlike the rest of us retirees who were splitting our time between cold and warm climates. Our visit was to include time with them.  Five Years Ago the Book Club at "The Farm" Gave Me a Gracious Welcome Toni suggested  Breathing on Her Own  to the book club in the community where she lives. As a result, one of my first book signings and speaking engagements was with an incredible group of women from “The Farm....

A Heritage of Faith...A Legacy of Love

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I Still Enjoy Grandma's Quilts This past Sunday we celebrated MOM. It was a great day for many and a troubling day for others. I saw many posts on social media about people who no longer have their mothers.  I know I’m blessed to have my mom here…in good health…and active. But as Mother’s Day is a day of remembering, my thoughts were drawn to my grandmother and great-grandmother as well. I’ve often thought of writing three novellas trying to tell their stories and capture what I’ve gained from these women. Maybe someday I’ll do that. I know what I’d call them:  Samantha’s Blessing, Ophia’s Prayer , and  Nora’s Love . Samantha’s Blessing I never knew my great-grandmother, though if you ask me, or any of my cousins about her you’ll get a fair description. My grandmother was the oral historian in our family and told us all about her mother…what she knew, that is. Grandma was only seven-years-old when her mother died leaving her and her siblings orphaned. ...

Your Voice Counts...

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I am often asked by readers about reviews. “Do they really matter?”… “I wouldn’t know how to write a review”….or something along the lines of “What if I don’t like the book?” It happened this past week. Someone saw a Facebook comment I made about getting a review on my birthday. I said it was the best present ever! The person reading my post responded with, “How do I write a review?”  It’s a fair question. A good question. Authors aren’t insulted by it at all. In fact, it is great when someone asks. We love it! Here are a few guidelines to help you, though. Three Basic Guidelines: 1. Write an honest review. Even if you don’t like the book,  be honest . Don’t sugarcoat it.  2.  Be specific  as to why you did or didn’t like the book. “I liked it because I grew up in Door County and it brought back sweet memories.” Or  “I didn’t like it because I like books with explicit sex scenes and bad language. This one was too sweet.” Of cou...

Another Trip Around the Sun

My grandfather died July 16, 1971. Tom and I were engaged at the time and I remember Tom talking about how Grandpa died so young. Young? Really? Grandpa died on his sixty-sixth birthday. Sixty-six sounded old to me. And Grandpa seemed old to me. So did Grandma.  To my way of thinking…my grandparents were always old. But here I am…a grandmother to eight incredible young people. The oldest just got his driver’s license. His brother was in a golf tournament this past weekend and is talking about the high school golf team next year.  The other “Grands” are reading and writing and acting so mature I’m amazed by them. The youngest may not be reading much yet as he’s only two, but he is articulate and tall…making people think he may be older than he really is.  I wonder if my grandchildren think of me as old. Probably. But they are too considerate to say it to my face. There were so many things I wanted to do before I got old. Some of them I’ve completed...