Graduation...in Kosovo

This week marks a special event in Europe. 

And I'm not there to experience it. 

Those of you who have followed my blog for a while, know that I received a message in 2017 from one of my former students at the University. A message that proved to be a gift.

Heather graduated from the teacher education program where I taught and served as the head of the education department. I was one of Heather’s professors as well as her advisor when she studied at the private university in Cincinnati.

Since graduation, Heather had married and now used her gift of teaching at a private school in Kosovo. Think “Southeastern Europe.”

The message was simple. Heather let me know she and her husband were going to have a baby. It brought a smile to my face.

The next part of the text explained she was returning to the United States to have her child. I remember thinking that was likely a good decision. 

Finally, she noted that since she was going to be in the States, she needed a substitute to take her place teaching her fourth-grade class at the school. This was a request for me to take that position.

I gave her the only answer I could. “I’ll pray about it,” I typed. 

And I did. I had taken a group of college students to the war-torn country a few years prior. My husband was with me then, but this trip would be on my own. Tom died in 2014. Mike and I didn't start dating until 2022.

In 2018, The tiny country of Kosovo
celebrated 10 years of being a nation.

I had just moved into a smaller, more manageable home. Still, I was true to my word and prayed about it. Not alone. I talked it over with my family.

A little over three weeks later, I was on a plane out of Chicago heading to Prishtina, Kosovo. 

I taught fourth grade that year. And it was wonderful. There were two Americans in my class and the rest of my class were Albanian Kosovars.

Fourth Graders are Fourth Graders Wherever They Are...

Now, my sweet fourth grade students are graduating high school. Most are already enrolled in universities across Europe and a couple in the United States. I haven’t heard from all of them, but I know these kiddos. They will be successful and make a positive impact wherever they land.

If you want to read about some of my adventures in the Balkans, I’m listing a few links below. And feel free to share in the comments a time you’ve accepted a “challenge” in your life; a time you took a chance; a time you said yes…and didn’t regret it!

The Adventure of Living: A New Chapter

The Bus Ride

Permission to Rest

 *Letters  from Bill Clinton

*I need to  mention, the students also thanked President Bush for the roll he played in helping Kosovo become recognized as a country. I am sure he acknowledged those letters, but not before I  returned to the States.

 

Tell Your Story

 Do You Have a Story to Tell? Tell It!

 

Someone asked me how I keep writing. “Aren’t there times when you just don’t feel like writing?” Sure. That’s when having a plan helps.

 

I was trying to think of a good metaphor to explain my writing schedule. I could compare it to exercise. You just do it on a regular basis, inspired or not. 

Exercise Your Writing Muscle

In fact, when I’m not particularly “inspired” to write, I engage in a writing exercise. There are story starters online or even books with suggestions to exercise your writing muscle. 

 

I’m sure those are helpful, but for me, I will often turn to topics Chicken Soup for the Soul plans to publish and write stories for the next two or three titles. If I like what I wrote, I edit the story, read it out loud to make sure it says what I want it to say and submit it to the publishers. They are not all accepted, but I have had several stories published under various titles in the Chicken Soup for the Soul series. Not a bad exercise. It pays a few dollars and builds my writing resume. I’ll take that.

 

Maybe, for me, a better comparison for those times I “don’t feel like writing” is cooking dinner. Every day I plan and cook dinner. Take that back. Every day I feel responsible to plan and cook dinner. I love to cook but going out to eat is okay, too. And fortunately, Mike cooks burgers every Friday.

 

But most days, I like figuring out healthy and delicious meals for my husband. Some recipes are great. Mike will eat and say, “You should make that again!” Other times, we will try something new and after dinner decide to trash the idea for future meals.

 

I am not always inspired to cook, but we are always inspired to eat. And the more I cook, the better I cook. My writing is like that.

 

I write. I sit down, turn the computer on and write. When I was working on my master’s thesis, one of my professors told me to write five pages every day. She said even if I read it later and trashed every bit of it, I would be better off than if I waited for the perfect words to come. She was right. 

 

Now I write almost every day. Just engaging in the process gets my creative juices flowing. I know I will make cuts, but I also know I will be able to salvage bits and pieces even on those days I feel totally uninspired to write. 

 

For example, when I first started to write, author Jack Cavanaugh read the first ten pages of my book and told me to ditch the first chapter in my book, Breathing on Her Own. He said it was all “backstory” and suggested I weave the backstory into the rest of the book.  He was right. I wound up “trashing” the first two chapters.

 

I can hear you now. You can’t throw away all those words you put on paper. I understand. I don’t literally trash them either. I cut and paste them into a separate file called "discarded text." I still have all the information. I may need it in the future. Or not. But what I know is this: If I want to be a professional writer, I cannot think of every sentence I forge as sacred. 

 

So, my advice to you if you think you have a story to tell? Well, it sounds a bit like the Nike commercial: Just Do It!

 

And let me know how it goes!

 

The Train Ride

 The Train Ride

We had a ticket to ride!

If you read my post a couple of weeks ago called “Yay for May!” you already know my oldest grandson graduated from the University of Cincinnati in the field of cyber-technology. You may recall from that post I said Joshua has other interests, too. If you missed that post, I’ll put a link to it at the bottom of this one.

The station had it's own Thomas the Tank

Ever since he was a young child, Joshua has had a fascination

with trains. He was a huge fan of Thomas the Tank Engine. He loved the train under the Christmas tree. He collected all sorts of track and trains through the years. 

Of course the big draw for us to travel to Ohio was to celebrate Joshua’s college graduation, a week or so before accepting that diploma, Josh graduated from “train school.” Seriously. He graduated as a Junior Brakeman. The first step in the train school in Connersville, Indiana. 

So, while we were in the area, Joshua took us to Connersville to catch a train to the historic town of Metamora. Metamora was established in 1838 and once best reached by the Whitewater Canal. Or on horseback. 

The Whitewater Canal 
(View from the train.)

Now Metamora attracts tourists seeking a touch of history or scouring the shops for antiques, unique gifts, or homemade fudge. Though it can be reached by automobile, most folks enjoy the scenic train ride to the unique community with the population of a little over two-hundred folks.

Yes, the post is short, but the pictures tell the real story. Enjoy!

And click HERE for the post, “Yay for May!”

First Class was "heated" in winter.

JT and his great grandmother. British map

JT talking with the conductor

Mike and I had a great time roaming the town.

True Confession: 

 “I am a paperphile.”

There. I said it. I love paper. I’m addicted. They say the first step to recovery is confession. 

So here it is: I am a paperphile. I don’t think I’ve ever met a blank piece of paper or a notebook or even a paper placemat at a restaurant that didn’t draw me in to retrieve a pen or pencil and start writing. Or drawing.

My mom would send me to my room to clean it only to find me sitting in the middle of the floor an hour later, surrounded by paper, books, or half used notebooks, reading or writing. My paternal grandmother understood. She sent notebooks and calendars my way. 

Even as I am typing this, I am surrounded by five notepads and two pads of post-it notes and four pens.  That is in addition to the legal pad on the other side of the computer where I’m working! This is not a set-up. This is my life!

Poor Mike. I have a desk in our house that I regularly clean out. Actually I mostly stack the paper in neat piles and try to keep the clutter at a minimum. Fortunately, the desk closes up, so if someone should come to the door, I can hide my stash quickly. 

It would be okay if I were organized. You know…one notebook for one purpose kind of thing. But no. I can open a notebook and find the beginning of a story idea, a recipe, a grocery list, a quote I like, names I’ve collected, ideas for future blog posts, and the opening lines to a new book…or two. 

While visiting the Ohio house, I opened the door to my office. What is the first thing you expect to see in an office? A desk, right? 

I have a great desk. I really do. The problem is, you can’t see it. It is stacked with…you guessed it…paper. And notebooks, files, books on writing. Pens, highlighters, and a printer full of paper. The office is better organized. At least, it is useable space. 

I am determined to get better. Someday. It’s hard. I’m thinking I could start a group for people like me.

I’ll call it Paper-holics Anonymous. Wow! What a great idea!

A time to meet. A group logo. Invitations. 

Now to make a list…Yep, I need a sheet of paper…